Showing posts with label go. Show all posts
Showing posts with label go. Show all posts

Monday, January 7, 2013

How to get unstuck.


"Don't wait for the right answer and the golden path to present themselves.
This is precisely why you're stuck. Starting without seeing the end is difficult, so we often wait until we see the end, scanning relentlessly for the right way, the best way and the perfect way.
The way to get unstuck is to start down the wrong path, right now.
Step by step, page by page, interaction by interaction. As you start moving, you can't help but improve, can't help but incrementally find yourself getting back toward your north star.
You might not end up with perfect, but it's significantly more valuable than being stuck.
Don't just start. Continue. Ship. Repeat."


He's part of my team of supporters in my effort to Go!

Saturday, January 5, 2013

Gotta do it.


What if you showed up to your life as if by threat of firing or, better yet, by promise of promotion, success, fame, etc.?

Maybe you’re thinking, “Well, Mary, sorry to disappoint you but I don’t really take my work that seriously.” I feel ya. I’d also be willing to guess, though, that you show up the vast majority of days that you’re scheduled to do so (and you probably have a schedule) and when you can’t show up, you call in or get your shift/work covered for that time period. I imagine you think some about your work outside of your work hours and do some “planning” even if that just translates to picking out your outfit for the day or packing you lunch.

You probably don’t even realize the many things you do that are part of taking your work seriously….even if you hate your job.

And that’s what I’m asking you to do with your passions, with those things that you “wish you had more time for” or that you “really want to do but (insert excuse here).” We don’t often find ourselves making excuses for why we can’t go to work today. And it feels justified because that’s our livelihood. That’s how we pay the bills. Nevertheless, that feeling of obligation, of “just gotta do it” is something that we self-impose (which is, no doubt, buttressed by a host of outside influences). We made it up harnessing the power of our minds. And, congratulations on that one, because it’s powerful.

We can use this ability we've created in our minds, the "gotta do it" attitude and the actions and behaviors springing from it, and use it in ways that serve us by transferring it to the work or projects that you feel drawn to and inspired by (talents, passion, purposed-based projects). If this feels overwhelming, do a micromovment. Commit yourself to experimenting with this for, say, 10 minutes a day for a whole week. To keep going beyond this, notice how this "pays off" in terms of your mood or level of energy or inspiration. (Here's why.) Depending on what your passion is, it might also pay off monetarily (e.g. selling handmade wares on Etsy).

What project do you gotta work on this week?


Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Go!


This inaugural blog post is a physical manifestation of my word of the year (inspired by Susannah Conway's Unravelling 2013 workbook. For free here.)

I love to read, think, and write. I excelled in school largely because I’m at home in my brain and I’m fascinated by ideas. In the past few years, a whole new realm of ideas and concepts have come into my awareness through the books, blogs, and online content I read. From sources as varied as Shakti Gawain, Pema Chödrön , Bob Proctor, Tim Ferris, Chris Guillebeau, Seth Godin , Hugh MacLeod, Daniel Siegel…and the list goes on.

Though I love the world of ideas and the process of pondering, I am beginning to really get that transformation happens in the doing. And in order to do anything, especially to start a journey into uncharted territory with ourselves (or, say, a new blog), we just have to take the leap. Do something. Write the first post. Make a move even if it feels so tiny and insignificant.

Just, Go!